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Getting along with co-workers and supervisors might be difficult, but generally can be managed if one makes the attempt. Conflict at work is often due to a person\u2019s feeling defensive out of a fear of losing face. To prove himself he sets certain goals for how others should treat him, and then expects rigidly that others will fulfill those expectations. This rarely happens as planned, however, because others also have an agenda for their own rigid goals to be achieved. Perhaps the best way to avoid this impasse is to set the challenge of reaching one\u2019s goals while helping the boss and colleagues reach theirs; it is less direct and more time-consuming than forging ahead to satisfy one\u2019s interests regardless of what happens to others, but in the long run it seldom fails.<\/p>\n\n\n\n